Papers
Understanding Our Hardwiring: All relationship/communication advice falls short if it does not focus on why we behaved in a specific way in the first place. What keeps us from having healthy relationships?

The Five Necessities of Relationship: We interact with others to be seen, understood, accepted, chosen and valued by others.

A Relationship Model: Understanding that anytime we are not getting the results we want, our relationship/communication model has run out of options and has failed us.

Wrong Tool for the Job: We are trying to communicate with our early childhood, hardwired model and it often does not work to get us the results we desired.

Not Seeing the Obvious: The affect that hardwired conditioning has on our relationships with others. No matter what a person’s behavior they are asking to be seen, understood, accepted, chosen and valued by others.